Signs a Girl is Attracted to Asian Men
Signs a Girl is Attracted to Asian Men



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I receive 1000s of emails from my fans asking for interracial dating advice for Asian men and the #1 question that gets asked is, “How should i know if she (normally a white girl, but not always) is interested in dating Asian men?”



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Since your Asian Dating Coach, however, I’m finally answering the question since its been asked so many times ad naseum. I’m finally going to put it to bed for the first and before despite my misgivings.



I used to be recently reminded of the controversial topic (and I’ll cover the key reason why it’s so controversial extensively at the end) on one of my many flights training men within the art of attraction once i sat next to a really pretty, blonde and bubbly California surfer sort of girl.



In our conversation, she made many of the verbal indicators of interest that I’ve heard previously and that I’ve come to recognize as flirtatious signals from a woman when she’s attracted specifically to Asian men (and for that reason to the likes people and I).



This is admittedly a rarer type of reverse Yellow Fever fraught with it’s own dangers and something in which I’ll go more into detail within my next article about single, white females who intentionally exploit Asian men.



Here is a list of some of the things these girls will consciously do so that you can let me know they want a samurai in shining armor (although I use the term white female, the truth is other women from Black to Latin American, will even use the same flirting signals):



10 Signs a woman is Attracted to Asian Men



1. She “Knows” an Asian language:



Asian tattoos are a great conversation starter with females!



Maybe you’ve seen this kind - they put Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Vietnamese, etc. under “languages you know” on Facebook (or placed on an Chinese/Asian tramp stamp) even though they really only know how to order pho.



Should you encounter these loquacious ladies, gentlemen, I suggest an awesome sexual bantering tip because every woman wants to be cultured. You, being a cosmopolitan man on the planet, are going to teach her a phrase in your language. Here’s an example for you Chinese speakers.



First, act grave and say something such as, “Let me teach you something. You’ll find this valuable in the far reaches during my country. Say this: Wo xi huan gou pa shi.”



Make her repeat it. Then she’ll ask “What did I believe that?”



And you’ll say (in the most PLAYFUL tone and smile you can handle) “You just said ‘I enjoy it doggy-style!’” But then go from playful to romantic. After she laughs off her embarrassment, make use of your phrases to compliment her.



Teach her “Wo hao xi huan ni de xiao” and, after she repeats it, she’ll ask again. You’ll say, “It means ‘I really like your laugh.’”



And she’ll laugh again. Carry on but turn it from playful to romantic. “You have beautiful eyes,” or “Your smile is amazing,” are flirtatious phrases shrouded in the learning experience.



Girls who have had the pleasure of the situation tell me it’s unique and something they’ve never forgotten. Be sure to utilize it if you know your native language!



2. She Has Asian Friends:



Larissa Riquelme shot to fame when she announced at the World Cup that she wanted a Korean boyfriend



Her closest friend is Chinese. Her college roommate was Korean. She lived next door to a Vietanemse family. Even when they don’t have these experiences they’ll say they have some sort of Asian acceptance to make her seem more receptive. They’ll make use of the most random things too; a really random story I’ve heard is the place one girl’s delivery room doctor would be a Japanese guy, so since she was “born in to the arms of an Asian man” she should “die within the arms of an Asian man also.” The point is, they are wanting to form some sort of connection. [EXAMPLE: Paraguayan model Larissa Riquelme was brought to the idea of dating Asian men by a Korean acquaintance]



3. She Loves (Mixed) Fighting techinques: I’ve never benefitted from this personally but one of my clients is really a former North American fighting styles champ and he’s currently a pretty famous action director and actor. He’s written in my experience on several occasions about the sexy crazy groupies that follow him and the folks his circuit - an ample selection of physically fit and attractive women are constantly at his discretion. Some of the most beautiful Asian men groupies stick to the martial arts circuit, the fighting techinques circuit, and similar sports-oriented social circles. If she mentions Nam Pham, Cung Le or Manny Pacquiao…ding ding ding! You have a winner!

 

4. She Loves Asian Food: Whether it is sushi, Korean BBQ or Pho, she's an Asian food “connoisseur.” If this comes up, use visual imagery to paint a picture in her mind that attracts all five senses. The sweet taste of jasmine rice, the aroma of a steaming bowl of pho, the appealing colors of nigiri sushi, the crackling sound of cooking your own personal Korean BBQ, and also the cold, soft texture of delicious sashimi are stimulating as well as arousing topics. Why, you may well ask? Because speaking of food such as this is sensual…just like sex. The best way to a man’s heart is thru his stomach, right? It relates to beautiful women too.

 

5. She Knows More About Your Mother Country Than You need to do: Even if she has no concrete plans, she’ll express her wants to go there. With the Japanese tsunami, she’ll express sympathy - don't take this as generalizing, she’s just attempting to reach out to you. Play into these fantasies when you can. Paint an image about going on a vacation together. Start with romantic depictions of you doing things together, then progress to sensual and end up getting sexual. We have to open that door first through verbal imagery progression. Surfing to walking in conjunction sipping on margaritas and coconuts then you’re rolling around in the sand kissing. Use her desire to your advantage.

 

6. She’s a Gamer or Anime-Lover:

 They express curiosity about anime (Sailor Moon, Akira, Pokemon, etc) and gaming (Final Fantasy and the like). This group of women aren’t really my bag, but whatever floats your boat. If she likes them, fair game, that’s approximately her. If she’s talking about how Akira’s going to be whitewashed then she’s trying to relate to you. The latter kind of woman desires to impress you along with her knowledge of the “Asian male plight.” She’s seeking you to a point in places you say something towards the effect of “That is so amazing how much you understand!” Watch for that and indulge her

 

7. She Loves Asian Music: Kpop, Jrock, dramas and films - this kind of girl is infatuated with all the Hollywood of the East. They’re probably younger and more attractive, as this is a comparatively new phenomenon, but because there’s no representation of SE Asians then she may well not go for you if you’re, say, Cambodian or Viet. Or Thai. Or Filipino. Or even Chinese for that matter. I’m not saying it won’t happen, but I can’t ever think of a time I was successful with this type of girl despite my PUA mastery. I simply don’t look East Asian, girly, emo enough. Sometimes, she just simply will not have anything less than a BIG BANG boyfriend (put simply, a Korean or Japanese guy).

 

8. She’ll Compliment Your Asian Attributes: Whether it be your eyes, Asian hair, or complexion, she’s going to love them and let you know it at some point in the conversation. Take her on it when she does by putting your forearm as much as hers, or if you feel more comfortable or if the conversation is going well, take her hand to indicate the contrasting tones. Intangible things such as intelligence, family, work ethic, second language aren't uncommon topics either. Women learn through encouragement while men learn through challenge (in the event you tell a girl she looks sexy for the reason that dress, she’ll probably use it again). Just as i was little boys, we do melt under the praise of the beautiful woman. When she praises my accomplishments such as education or that familiarity with a second language, she’s wanting to help me learn.

 

9. She Loves Happa Interracial Babies:

 They’ll typically create a comment on how interracial babies are beautiful. You are able to bring this as well. “Just think…if you and get wed and we had a litter of the very most beautiful interracial babies…can you imagine how gorgeous they'd be?” It plays into her fantasy. Just as we men have sexual fantasies, ladies have “family fantasies.” They’ll deny it and push out of their minds to keep emotionally detached, but take into account that, by the end of this or any conversation you've with a female interested in you, she’s already imagined your future life and family…just as you’ve imagined sleeping together with her.

 

10. She has “Asian-Dating Experience”: This is the biggest, most obvious indicator a lady can give you that she’s into Asian men generally and you in specific. Count on me, anytime a girl has ever informed me she had an Asian boyfriend before, I will pretty much romantically interact with her 99.9999% of the time. So a white girl that way will say that she has dated an Asian man before. She will make this point and also further - she'll try to guess your ethnicity to show that she’s “learned in the methods for Asian men” and can prove that “not everyone look the same.” She’ll say she’s dated a person of my ethnicity to create her seem more desirable and receptive in my experience. So if she’s busting out this big gun, then it’s your decision to close because as signals go, it doesn’t have any bigger than this one.



While having, saying, or doing one among the aforementioned things doesn’t automatically make a girl attracted to Asian men. But combine a number of those traits or even all of them together and, gentlemen, you just might find yourself conversing with one woman who's madly in love with the Asian persuasion.



Recall the #1 Rule: When you do meet that beautiful girl, always leave the lady better than you found her!



Why WAIT UNTIL NOW TO ANSWER THIS QUESTION?



I mentioned previously which i was always reluctant to answer this question. I know it seems like a simple, straightforward question “What signals do white women give that says she’s approachable and receptive to Asian men?”



Why haven’t I answered it so far? Unfortunately, the act of asking the question means your More unlikely TO SUCCEED with non-Asian women.



It’s a paradox. The thing is, I’ve always known the technical answer but I’ve been hesitant to answer because, over a holistic level, it’s NOT empowering to Asian men as a whole to actually know the response to that question. I believe that the thousands of men that message me with this question are displaying what is known as “learned helplessness.”



Basically, the men to whom the answer to the question “How may i tell if she’s attracted to Asian men (and therefore me)?” is important, are training themselves to only make a move on a non-Asian women that distinctly signal more forward dating behavior first, before the man does. In other words, he wants a zero-risk, in the bag, sure-thing, 100% guarantee or your money back proposition.



As well as in today’s modern world with modern women, the very last thing dating is, is risk-free.



Meaning instead of being a confident, masculine Asian man ready to take risks (who'd then naturally attract these women whether white, black or Latina) and playing the Asian Card to obtain the beautiful woman, he instead turns into the Asian beta male that is only confident if it's instead the woman who takes the first risk. Instead of the correct way around which is the man’s role to be dominant, forward, plus a leader.



I hope, however, I am not doing a disservice to Asian men by training to look, and ONLY look, for these specific female signals of attraction first prior to making a move… Instead of creating a move first then making her interested in you which she then sends you signals. That’s the right way.



Laugh your path into her heart (then her pants)!



As you can see, I am a very average looking man. I'm a short 5 foot 5 inches and that i know I am not a great looking or handsome guy. Every woman I’ve dated is physically (otherwise socially) out of my league. I never get those kind of indicators of interest or signals of attraction. You should never expect them because I certainly don’t and my success most abundant in beautiful women has been documented and faithfully captured through the media around the world.



Instead, begin using these signals and indicators of curiosity to your “Asianness” that she’s becoming attracted to you AFTER you’ve approached her and gotten to know her. You ought to take these 10 Signals She’s Interested in Asian Men as signs that you should STAY when you’re already in the conversation with her instead of viewing them as indicators so that you can initially approach her.



In the end, what I’ve discovered with girls that specifically that like Asian men are in a choice of it for relationship material or sugar daddies. They’ll enjoy being there but be mindful because you’ll get restricted quickly with a girl that chose you, not just a girl YOU chose, which is a gross difference.



And after answering this time tested question, in my next controversial interracial Asian Male White Female dating article, I’m going to address the 13 Kinds of Women Who Exploit Asian Men! Yes indeed, there are women who will use the above signals because she’s only attracted to your “Asianness”, but not for your reasons that you might think.



If you haven’t had the chance to get acquainted with yourself and know women, then I’d save these girls for later - all things considered, you’re here to learn pick up, and quitting the overall game early isn’t fair to yourself and to the many women you've yet to meet.

 

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